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Khu Ioduan Mods ([personal profile] khuimods) wrote in [community profile] ioduanlogs2018-02-14 10:21 am

[EVENT] THE TIES THAT BIND US

Characters: Everyone!
Date: February 14-28
Location: All around Aifaran
Situation: The last two weeks of February celebrate Tine's Commemoration, a celebration of renewing friendships and signaling forgiveness.
Warnings/Rating: Shouldn't need any, but add to subject lines as needed!


During the last week of February, the mood shifts around the city. The tension over the missing Kin'nal girl eases some, and there's a lot of talk of renewal and remembrance. In the days leading up to the 14th, some shopkeepers begin reorganizing to make space to feature knotworks and related crafts, and photos on Xa Xa feature knots in process, some made by special artisans. If asked, they will say that all of this is in preparation for Tine's Commemoration, two weeks that are dedicated to renewing and recognizing friendships, forgiving past grievances, and recognizing our most important ties through an exchange of intricately tied knots.

There are specific knots and knot colors meant to signify different kinds of relationships. Friendship knots come in white and blue. White is for the bond of new friends, blue to recognize the joy of old friends. The blue knots typically are added together in a series, one made for each year of the friendship and tied to each other sequentially. More complicated knots are made when forgiving a grudge or past grievance, or to tell someone that they are considered family. While not a major focus of the exchange, there are also multi-colored knots for romantic relationships.

In recognition of this tradition's roots, there is also an ornate tassel knot made for those who have been lost. The color signifies if they have been lost to death (black, often laced with another color like blue for the sea) or the Dreaming (gray). Most have the person's name woven into them, either on a metal disc or a piece of fabric. Rather than being worn, these knots are hung by the door as a waysign: come home; your spirit may rest here.

Shops around the city sell these knots, but there are also ample opportunities to tie your own! The Tifaut in particular take this tradition to heart and have areas set up at several of the city's parks and civic centers, including one at the Dreaming Bridge. They teach knot-making and provide materials (with a suggested donation for those who can afford it), or you can bring your own cord! Making knots of recycled material, like old clothing or retired fishing rope, can add special meaning to the creation - some believe that doing so means sharing a part of yourself with the intended recipient.

Knots can be worn as jewelry or braided into hair (or sometimes hair itself gets tied, with one friend attending to the other's hairdo), and it's customary to keep them on your person throughout the month. While they can be given or exchanged all on their own, it isn't uncommon for knots to come with small gifts or trinkets as well. After February comes to a close, it's important to store the knots somewhere safe, often in a special box or bag with numerous pockets.

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OOC Notes: This is an open, game-wide event for your characters to participate in (or try and avoid, if they're that type) as much or little as they want to. New Dreamfolk are always popular integrations of these kinds of festivals in the city, so you can write yours attracting lots of positive attention if you'd like.

Provided below are some starters, but you can make your own too if none of these work for you!
annihilist: (Uncertain)

[personal profile] annihilist 2018-02-18 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Devin eyes the Fool with annoyance as he has to pull up short, folding his arms across his chest. The man doesn't present much of an actual obstacle from a physics standpoint, but in all likelihood he would just corner Devin later on rather than give up.

The annoyance falters when he's presented with a knot, replaced with uncertainty. Snippy, dismissive comments form on the tip of his tongue, and not one of them feels right. His posture doesn't actually shift, and yet the cut of his shoulders appears stiffer.

"Why?" is all he can think to say.
afoolsgold: (the rooster crown)

[personal profile] afoolsgold 2018-02-18 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
The knot remains offered out; Devin hasn't taken it from him yet, but he hasn't rejected the gesture, either. The Fool regards him archly. "Why not?" he rejoins, and holds the knot nearer to him. His smile grows wry, and he teases, "White not your colour?"
annihilist: (Skeptical)

[personal profile] annihilist 2018-02-18 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
Friendship isn't my color, Devin doesn't say, partly because that's not true and partly because it sounds stupid even in his head. He's not good at this sort of thing, and he knows it.

That is also a frustrating non-answer. "I'm led to believe that you only give those to someone who deserves it," Devin contends, shifting in such a way that his discomfort is more obvious.
afoolsgold: (what big eyes you have)

[personal profile] afoolsgold 2018-02-19 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
He is discomforted, and the Fool isn't making this any easier for him. To be fair, he isn't intentionally trying to make it difficult, either.

"Have you not been a friend to me?" he ventures instead with raised eyebrows and a careful look at Devin's face. "You've aided me when I've needed help, sought to right wrongs when you've seen them. We have, the both of us, shared details of our pasts with each other, without question or judgment."

He offers it out again. "Please," he entreats quietly.
annihilist: (Uncomfortable)

[personal profile] annihilist 2018-02-19 06:18 am (UTC)(link)
The Fool doesn't know yet the magnitude of what he's offering and asking. A few others from Keeliai do now, and even them Devin doesn't call friends aloud. It's not that he doesn't consider them to be, more or less, but the vampire has isolated himself so much for the past six or seven decades that he's not sure what friendship is supposed to look like any longer.

But the Fool is right about all of those things, and if that's the bar of what friendship means (for him or objectively, it doesn't really matter), he can't duck out of this with a lie. It's fitting, he thinks, that this festival is about knots; it has certainly gotten him tangled up.

There may as well be a chasm between them, despite being right in front of each other. Slowly, almost hesitatingly, Devin takes the white cord from the Fool and holds it carefully. "I wasn't aware that added up to being a friend," Devin replies quietly, looking down at the knot. The statement is uncharacteristically honest, absent any edge though the tension hasn't ebbed from his shoulders.
afoolsgold: (radiant smile)

[personal profile] afoolsgold 2018-02-22 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
As though in small acknowledgement of that quiet, rather vulnerable-sounding honesty, the Fool's tone remains gentle, without any witticism or barb he might inject at another's expense. "It adds up to the beginning of one," he ventures instead. "Of friendship."

When Devin takes the knot, he drops his hands to let them rest loosely by his sides, but there's clear gratitude in his expression. Maybe even a touch of wry affection, too, for this recalcitrant fellow who reminds him, in so many ways, of another who was dear to him, in another life. Perhaps that's why he's willing to take chances where others might not. "Come," he suggests, a bit of laughter entering his voice, "if this festival is not to your liking, why don't we escape it and find some other place to explore within the city? Or perhaps without?" He's yet to leave the bounds of Aifaran itself, and his curiosity about it is practically brimming over as he makes the suggestion.